As I walk around Riruta, on my way to and from school or my friend's houses, people stare. I stand out here, more so than I ever have before. Many local inhabitants look at me with curiousity in their eyes, probably thinking why is this mzungu(white person) here. Others take advantage of my presence by practicing their english.
As I walk around Riruta with my fellow LC classmates we are constantly followed by a chorus of people yelling "how are you," which sounds more like "hau r choo." If you respond with "good," the young faces around you react with a look of confusion. It is only when you respond with "I'm fine" that a huge smile crosses their faces. When one kid initiates the "hau r choo" a symphony of other kids chime in. A response of "I'm fine" never stops the dominoe effect of these interactions.
I have found that the only way to stop the chorus is by asking them how they are. This only works if you win the spot of being the loudest person in these interactions. These interactions are in no way bothersome rather the statements of "hau r choo", often follewed by MZUNGU, have been a part of my daily life here in Riruta and have brought many smiles to my face.
There is an old swahili proverb my International studies teacher told us that relates to this post. It states that, "a guest or a stranger (same word in swahili...very interesting) is a white chicken. Mgeni ni kuku mweupe. We stand out like a sore thumb because we do not belong."
Yet my family, specifically my host-mom and her friends, have shown me that I really am a guest in their lives, and that for this month I really do belong.
I hope you all are doing well and enjoying my posts. For the next couple of weeks they will appear about every four days. I apologize for the spelling mistakes, each minutes costs money, and the pressure is overwhelming.
Much Much Love!
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Your posts are fantastic and put smiles on many faces. You are allowing all of us back here a glimpse of your life and adventures in Africa. What a wonderful gift. It's a treat to check your blog and find a post. I check it daily. Watch out Rick Steves, a new author is emerging. I love you angel and miss you lots. xxox MOM
omgosh molly mollz, I have been so busy here. I feel horrible I haven't sent you updates on the odell situation !!! I am most definitely a HOE. welllllll our room is BOMB beyond belief. we've dubbed it 'grandma's room' cause it's so damn cozy. and of course is decorated in the fashion, with a lace curtain, a rocker, a fake cat (lucille) and a hella comfy couch we got fo free from some reedie. upppa odell is bout the same, full of randoms. we haven't really made any chill hall friends just yet, but my two high school buddies who are freshmen are in odell. one's in ana's old room, the other's in lodell 8 I think. school's going great, I love my classes and they're not too challenging. I picked up a few work study jobs, so I tutor twice a week at capital hill elementary school and work at a botanical garden on sundays! fuckin sick, eh? I had my first writing conference yesterday as a peer consultant! fun. but hard! shiiiiit. what else?! we have a pair of antlers on our wall! which fell last night so we need to figure out a better way to hang them. um. It's been hella nice, but it was overcast today (yay! this is the portland I remember!) Everyone misses you dearly and me especially. sonja and I bunked our beds and I'm on the bottom, so if you want to continue that next semester, it hella opens up the room. um...cant wait to seeeeee youuuuuu. sounds like you're having a great time though! anything else you want to know about lc??
Hiya Molly,
News from the docks is all good.
We're all thrilled to hear you are doing so well and I get updated as to whenever there's a new post via your beaming father.
I have had experiences with school children in India similar to yours when walking down the street of some rural town when school let out. You seem to have a very good instinct for your place in these events, and in my mind's eye I see you smile as they unfold around you. It's a wonderful world, Molly, keep drinking it in!
David Hudson
(Dad's Tailgunner)
Wonderful stories, my sweet Mollitchky. They are lucky to have you and as they say in Swahili, kila jambo na wakati wake (everything happens in its proper time), so it must be bashert that you are sharing this experience with this lucky family.
Have you been reading any good books? have you read Things Fall Apart, by Chinua Achebe? I can't recall if we talked about it or if you read it in high school. Achebe is Nigerian and it was the first post-colonial novel that tells the story of European imperialism in Africa from the African's perspective. A devastating story, but essential reading and it's important after Heart of Darkness.
Well, enough about Africa then! Berkeley misses you and we haven't gone bike riding since you left (I tried to get your mom to go once, but I am still working on her). The tree sitters finally came down, if you haven't heard, and other than Rip's house being for sale — it's amazing how staging a house can change the whole perception vs. reality; she put a half painted canvas and some tubes of acrylic paints along with an easel and cozy throw blanket and suddenly the old, decrepit shed is an artist's studio — things are quiet on the block without you.
Your mom, Natty and I went to see the exhibit of women Impressionists (painters, not drag queens) at the Legion of Honor. We had a wonderful day and shopped for bargain linens afterwards, but I realized there were a few too many happy mothers and babies in those paintings and maybe that's why I prefer Frida Kahlo's suffering. More familiar than all that middle class happiness...
Things at school are wild. I spent the week investigating the theft of six new Macbooks/laptops and then after threatening, pleading, lying, cajoling, promising, and desperation, we got ALL of them back by the end of the day Friday. Restores ones faith in mankind, but only after too much stress.
Keep it coming, ya habibti!
xoxo
Suze
Very cool, Molly...we love your posts. Also great to see the pictures. Sounds like a fabulous experience. Thanks so much for sharing it with us all.
Terri and Charles
PS We are off to Mexico next week but will continue to follow your blog and maybe will even create one of our own.
I love reading these posts, wife, you really have a knack for making us readers feel like we're right there with you. I can just see all those faces asking "hao r choo??"
i miss you more than i though possible, and am sending lots of
LOVE
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